敷衍不如爽快的拒绝
[fū yăn bù rú shuăng kuài de jù jué]
'敷衍不如爽快的拒绝' can be understood as 'Rather give a straightforward refusal than pretend interest.' It refers to people's attitude toward unwanted invitations or social engagements where insincere compliance might lead to unnecessary complications. So, better reject directly is a life wisdom many have adopted.