放纵的前提是不怕抛弃
[fàng zòng de qián tí shì bù pà pāo qì]
Translated, 'the prerequisite for indulgence is the absence of fear of being abandoned'. This means feeling free to indulge in desires or behavior when one isn't afraid of potential rejection or isolation by others, reflecting an attitude of fearlessness and non-conformity, possibly related to living true to oneself without societal restrictions