儿子立正跟妈走闺女稍息跟爹混
        
            [ér zi lì zhèng gēn mā zŏu guī nǚ shāo xī gēn diē hùn]
        
        
            'Son stands at attention following mom, daughter rests at ease hanging out with dad.' It playfully describes a family structure or parenting style where children align differently between parents.