对你仁慈就是对自己残忍
[duì nĭ rén cí jiù shì duì zì jĭ cán rĕn]
This username expresses a sentiment of tough love or being hard on someone for their own good. In English, it could mean that showing kindness might not be beneficial and is almost self-destructive for the user. The phrase implies an internal conflict or a belief in strict measures.