对迩牵挂过于沉重对迩想念过于朦胧
[duì ĕr qiān guà guò yú chén zhòng duì ĕr xiăng niàn guò yú méng lóng]
Longing for you is so heavy, and missing you is so vague. It illustrates a conflicted emotion where concern and memories for someone feel both overwhelming yet unclear.