都怪你不对都怪我不好
[dōu guài nĭ bù duì dōu guài wŏ bù hăo]
This translates into 'All your fault, all my fault'. It shows self-blame along with pointing fingers at another person. In essence, this online handle speaks of someone willing to accept their own shortcomings as well as criticize their partners for misunderstandings or quarrels.