动情你就哭了认真你就输了
[dòng qíng nĭ jiù kū le rèn zhēn nĭ jiù shū le]
'Once you get moved emotionally you will cry; once you become serious you have already lost,' reflects on being hurt emotionally because getting too involved or showing earnestness may be seen as a vulnerability in certain social or dating contexts in today’s world.