等谁见谁谁等谁谁就见谁牵谁爱谁谁牵谁谁就爱谁
[dĕng shéi jiàn shéi shéi dĕng shéi shéi jiù jiàn shéi qiān shéi ài shéi shéi qiān shéi shéi jiù ài shéi]
A playful phrase roughly translating into 'whoever comes first gets love', which suggests that the order of meeting determines romantic connections. This reflects an attitude of spontaneous or casual approach to relationships