灯笼易灭恩宠难寻
        
            [dēng lŏng yì miè ēn chŏng nán xún]
        
        
            This name evokes the ephemeral nature of affection and the rarity of enduring kindness. The fleeting life of a lantern (representing warmth or love) and the challenge to find favor suggests someone's longing for lasting care or affection in their life.