待我长发及腰是毁我还是娶
[dài wŏ zhăng fā jí yāo shì huĭ wŏ hái shì qŭ]
In traditional Chinese culture, long hair is associated with grace and femininity in women. The user could imply they will accept someone's love when their hair reaches waist length, or else, this love may destroy the user. This suggests waiting for a significant other to decide on commitment.