穿着葬服参加你的婚礼
[chuān zhe zàng fú cān jiā nĭ de hūn lĭ]
'Attending your wedding dressed in funeral attire'. This is dramatic and expresses deep, conflicted feelings. On a darker level, it shows opposition against arranged marriage, expressing a strong sense of resistance. However, on another level it could symbolize personal mourning while others celebrate, representing a clash between joy and pain, or past hurts juxtaposed with new beginnings.