穿婚纱参加你的葬礼穿丧服参加你的婚礼
[chuān hūn shā cān jiā nĭ de zàng lĭ chuān sāng fú cān jiā nĭ de hūn lĭ]
'Wearing a wedding dress to attend your funeral, wearing mourning clothes to attend your wedding.' This is highly poetic and dramatic, implying deep, conflicted feelings of love and resentment, joy and sorrow about someone or something significant.