嘲者自嘲悲者自悲
[cháo zhĕ zì cháo bēi zhĕ zì bēi]
'One who mocks, self-mocks; one who grieves, self-grieves,' indicating different people handle feelings such as ridicule or sorrow in distinct manners, often projecting similar reactions onto oneself as encountered from others, embodying both a reflective and slightly self-deprecating perspective on personal emotions.