曾经掏心挖肺现在没心没肺
        
            [céng jīng tāo xīn wā fèi xiàn zài méi xīn méi fèi]
        
        
            'Used to Be Wholehearted, Now Carefree'. The user contrasts their former self—who gave everything emotionally for people—with their current nonchalant attitude. It signifies personal growth following heartbreaks.