不主动会失去主动多了好累
[bù zhŭ dòng huì shī qù zhŭ dòng duō le hăo lĕi]
The name suggests the frustration felt about interpersonal relationships. If one does not take the initiative, they might lose opportunities or people. Yet, being too proactive all the time also leads to exhaustion and tiredness, creating a dilemma of not knowing what the right balance should be.