不要问我怎舍得拱手让他
[bù yào wèn wŏ zĕn shè dé gŏng shŏu ràng tā]
The name reflects a sense of unwillingness and helplessness. It expresses a reluctance to give up something or someone precious but doing so due to external forces or circumstances. 'He' could represent anything that the person once had but had to let go of.