不要太狼狈让他感觉是累
[bù yào tài láng bèi ràng tā găn jué shì lĕi]
Translates to 'don't be too shabby/messy, let him feel tired'. This indicates trying not to present yourself too poorly in order not to overwhelm someone or add to their burden. A bit passive-aggressive, suggesting setting a boundary by not showing your vulnerabilities.