不要热闹了别人下建立自己不要成全了别人委屈了自己
[bù yào rè nào le bié rén xià jiàn lì zì jĭ bù yào chéng quán le bié rén wĕi qū le zì jĭ]
Warning against prioritizing another's success at the expense of one's own growth or sacrifice. Encourages people not to let themselves be overshadowed but instead focus on developing oneself without compromising too much.