不是每次伸手都有人帮你
[bù shì mĕi cì shēn shŏu dōu yŏu rén bāng nĭ]
It implies a recognition that one cannot always rely on others for help - sometimes you must face difficulties alone. The phrase acknowledges independence and the need for resilience when nobody is there to support you. It shows an awareness of personal responsibility even in tough times.