不能共苦何来同甘
[bù néng gòng kŭ hé lái tóng gān]
'Bu neng gong ku he lai tong gan', translating as 'Without sharing hard times together, where does sweetness come from?' This signifies the importance of shared experiences, good and bad, within relationships. It’s an expression for wanting mutual efforts to build up happiness and endure adversities together