不哭不闹不娇气
[bù kū bù nào bù jiāo qì]
It means 'Not Crying, Not Making Fuss, Not Being Spoiled,' illustrating the owner is a strong-willed, independent individual, refusing to act like those who overly rely on others, throw tantrums or seek constant consolation from others. This kind of resilience can reflect self-advocacy against softness and weakness.