不及深爱请放手若及深爱请深拥
[bù jí shēn ài qĭng fàng shŏu ruò jí shēn ài qĭng shēn yōng]
Loosely translates to 'if not enough to deeply love then let go, if enough to deeply love please deeply embrace'. It embodies profound wisdom and maturity in relationships: when in doubt about love, make clear choices—to completely give up or fully commit yourself to your loved one.