别说我变了是你厌倦了
        
            [bié shuō wŏ biàn le shì nĭ yàn juàn le]
        
        
            'Don't say I've changed, it’s you who are tired of me' suggests the user feels blamed unfairly for changes in a relationship, implying they believe the other party's dissatisfaction lies in themselves rather than changes in the user.