抱着棺材去蹦迪穿着拖鞋去相亲
[bào zhe guān cái qù bèng dí chuān zhe tuō xié qù xiāng qīn]
Translated literally, this humorous phrase would be 'Carrying a coffin to party while wearing flip-flops on a blind date'. It paints an exaggerated picture of someone embracing contradictions—living recklessly alongside mundanely ordinary routines, showing a blend of solemnity and levity in facing life.