爱是自虐
[ài shì zì nüè]
This name reflects a perspective on love as an action or process that is self-tormenting. It expresses the complex view in which loving someone or something may sometimes cause oneself to suffer or hurt deeply. The speaker feels like being trapped in an affection that inflicts pain, perhaps from unreciprocated or tumultuous love. This type of feeling might come across more relatable among individuals who have encountered heartache or difficult experiences in love.