爱理不理的态度还不如不理
[ài lĭ bù lĭ de tài dù hái bù rú bù lĭ]
An Attitude That Sometimes Cares, Sometimes Doesn't Is Worse Than Not Caring At All - Conveys criticism toward inconsistency or lack of sincerity in how one treats another. The phrase implies preference for clear rejection rather than vague interactions lacking depth or true intention.